Friday, July 3, 2020

Positivity, in-built or made?



A human being’s mind is a boon for him/her. Rather I would say it’s magic. From neuroscience and psychology standpoint, there are around 86 billion neurons in a human brain. If these neurons start transmitting positive signals, we can’t even imagine the power of that positive energy!! It is contagious in nature and creates a ripple effect. It’s benefits are multi-fold; it changes the personality of a person completely and the way of looking at various aspects of life also changes remarkably. The adrenaline rush in the body created through that energy eliminates all the unnecessary negative thoughts, whether it is egoism, depression, psychopathy etc. You find a newer version of yourself and it has a cascading effect too. When you talk with your family members, friends, relatives etc., your wordings say it all. It is equally complemented by your actions also. People start perceiving you very well. In the professional world, it creates a significant impact amongst your peers, team-members and other colleagues leading to a very cohesive and inclusive culture.

Before we drill down further, I want to share something about Arunima Sinha, world’s first female amputee to climb Mount Everest. She lost her left leg in a very tragic incident when she was thrown off the moving Padmawati Express train for resisting a chain-snatching attempt by hooligans in 2011. When she started recovering, she made up her mind to scale the highest peak of the world and she did it in 2013 with a prosthetic leg. It is nothing but sheer positivity. If she could, then we can. Certainly, the question that arises is how can we build it. It’s nothing complex to decipher or imbibe. Then, what is this positivity? Is it willpower, confidence or a blend of both? There is no right or wrong answer to this. What I believe, it’s all in the mindset. One’s upbringing plays a huge role but it’s not the sole factor. When you expose yourself with various sections of people across the society, you start knowing them, understand them, learn from them and then try to inculcate their good qualities within you. The wealth of knowledge keeps on increasing as you keep on reading books, journals, papers etc. Practicing yoga and breathing exercises on a daily basis creates that stimulus and livens you up. Engaging oneself in walking, running, playing any sort of sport augments your physical and mental well-being. Listening to songs or playing any musical instrument builds a soothing ambience and bolsters your mental equilibrium. Whether you watch inspiring and motivational videos in YouTube or hear to TED Talks, it’s your choice how you infuse them in your life. Last but not the least, if you make an effort to show your gratitude to one single person and make it a part of your daily routine, I bet you would be the happiest and respected person in this world.  In short, do whatever you enjoy to do, as it boosts up the happiness quotient and makes you feel satisfied. There is no mantra for this. However, if we want to redefine ourselves, then we need to stay positive irrespective of anything and everything. I am not an alien to it. This reminds me of a famous quote from Winston Churchill - “The positive thinker sees the invisible, feels the intangible and achieves the impossible.”