Monday, June 15, 2020

Change – Accept it but can't ignore it !!

Did anybody ever dream to operate out of home consecutively for around four months barring few exceptional cases? The answer would be a big “No”. However, the current situation has made it exceptional for everybody. The third decade of this century has started in a very topsy-turvy fashion. The word “corona” has reached to every nook and corner of the world. Whether it is a kid or nonagenarian, each one is aware of the hazardous corona virus. Almost the entire world was in a standstill position, there was complete lock down. Economies shrinking than ever before, reminds people of “The Great Depression” days. Recession has somewhat crept in and employees have been provided with pink slips. The migrant workers and the daily wagers are sensing the utmost pain. In the midst of this killer corona, Mother Nature has devastated lives through Cyclone Amphan, tremors, locust attack etc. adding insult to injury. Even though people have started living with it, but the fear and anxiety is still looming large on the horizon.

Companies have to let their professionals to operate remotely. The contours of professional life have been changed; home has become the new office. New employees are on-boarded virtually while exit formalities are also done in a similar manner too. Women employees are running a double-show ensuring effective business delivery as well as the role of a perfect home-maker. At the same time, male employees are extending their hand to their spouses for the house-hold activities. Many people have added new routines to their lives while some others have revived their earlier habits. Schools have been doing online classes which made my six-year old son used to Zoom/Google Meet ensuring the headphone & microphone are working as expected before his class. My father who is a retired Govt. official never saw me taking calls and attending back-to-back meetings became quite flabbergasted. Now he is used to the way we operate. Families have started watching mythological TV serials of the 80’s such as “Mahabharata” and “Ramayana” together which are telecasted now again. I have started adapting to situations such as my son running in between and showing his BMW M3 GTR drawing and asking for feedback while I am in the middle of a meeting. My apartment society’s circumference would be around 200 metres and I never used to walk inside it because of a short track. Now, I am jogging for around 10 kilometres in the same premises. Aren’t these all changes in our lives? Many people are questioned about managing the current situation which is nothing but a paradigm shift in everybody’s lives. Neither the state-heads nor the CEOs of all organizations would have ever dreamt about this in their wildest of their dreams. However, a crisis has happened and it needs to be dealt with when the exact solution is in progress. Per me, it’s all in the mindset. Your mind is the pivot. Then the question arises – “How to maintain the mental equilibrium in the midst of such unprecedented times”.

In spite of the horrendous impact of this corona pandemic, the medical and police & security personnel continue to be the beacon of hope and strength by putting their lives at stake. Their indomitable courage and selfless service brings back the smile on each one’s face. They work day in and day out to ensure there is minimal loss of life. This kind of service which may be a part of their daily routine, inculcates in every individual the resolve to fight against this dreadful disease and I am not an alien to it. I try to share the same with my little one too. Also, every morning, I keep on discussing with my ageing parents regarding these unsung heroes which includes but not limited to doctors, nurses, pharmacists, other medical personnel, NGO professionals and the khaki-dressed personnel and their level of commitment. The basic intent from my end is to spread positive vibes across the home in these worrisome moments. Few days back, there was a terrorist attack in Handwara (J&K) where 3 CRPF personnel lost their lives and 7 others were injured. These Army jawans are engaged in their BAU activities even in these hardest of times barely thinking about their families. It has not only boosted my willpower but also brought in more positivity in life and more balanced mental equilibrium. “The show must go on” irrespective of anything and everything. I have passed on the same to my family, relatives and well-wishers so that their mental wellbeing is maintained and each one of them remain healthy both mentally and physically.

Whether you adopt yoga, meditation, breathing exercises, walking, running, exercising, playing musical instruments, reading books, blogging, listening to songs, watching movies and/or web-series, gardening etc., it’s individual choice to keep themselves upbeat during this catastrophic situation. Actually, for me it’s a blessing in disguise, every crisis provides an opportunity and covid-19 is no different. How we lift ourselves in these times is of paramount importance. When I peep through my balcony window in the morning, I see people applauding the activities of the sweepers and other street workers, which was not the case earlier. This is the positive impact that Corona has created in a short span. Team members and office colleagues have come closer than earlier. Mindset of people have started changing towards empathy and affection leading to more bonding amongst them. The need of the hour is to maintain business continuity and at the same time ensure family safety. This reminds me of Charles Darwin’s theory of the survival of the fittest. Each one of us need to be more disciplined in leading a healthy life and sustain a work-life balance. Scientists and researchers across the globe are working on the vaccine diligently to provide the much-needed relief to the entire humanity. The day is not far when we would see the normalcy back in our lives. I wish the corona virus allows the entire human race to lead a mask-free and sanitizer-free life. This reminds me of a famous quote from Michael Jordan – “Obstacles don’t have to stop you. If you run into a wall, don’t turn around and give up. Figure out how to climb it, go through it or work around it.”